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Encouragement needed in holiday weight loss

The holidays can be a challenging time for anyone who is trying to eat healthy. For those on a weight-loss quest, the holidays can be especially challenging. That can offer family and friends a great opportunity to support their loved ones who are making lifestyle changes. “In the United States, our holiday celebrations tend to be centered around food,” said Sandra Santiago, ThedaCare bariatric nurse. “Birthdays, Valentine’s Day, Thanksgiving and Christmas are mostly food-centered, and most of it is high in carbohydrates and sugar.” One idea to help everyone be a healthier version of themselves is to put less focus on food during those occasions. “Maybe plan a hike or bike ride, or go ice skating, sledding or skiing as a family activity,” she said. “You can also attend or participate in a sporting event or play board or card games. The point is to make food less of the main attraction.” Santiago said the support of family and friends is very important to those who are making lifestyle changes, which is important when a person has significant weight loss goals. “Successful weight loss requires lifestyle changes, which includes developing healthy eating and exercise habits, and being mindful about what and how we eat,” she said. “For example, eating more slowly so our stomach can signal our brain when we’re full; that takes about 20 minutes. It includes being aware of what our body is telling us as we eat and determining why we want to eat and if we are comfortably full, not over full.” There are also habits to work through. “Eating out of boredom, or when we are emotional, are habits that should be identified and addressed by other means,” she said. “When a person has the urge to eat during those times, perhaps they could do something else, such as using deep breathing exercises, taking a few minutes to read or go for a walk, or use other distraction techniques to let the feeling pass. It’s important that we are mindful or aware of why we want to eat or whether we are truly hungry.” Studies show that many weight-loss patients have frequently tried numerous diets throughout the years, only to regain their weight — and sometimes even more weight — after discontinuing the diet. Santiago offered these suggestions for how family and friends can help loved ones who want to maintain healthier eating habits: • Model good eating habits by serving healthy snacks and meals. • Talk with them and listen to why they want to make lifestyle changes. What is important to them? For example, some people want to lose weight in order to be able to play with their children or grandchildren. • Invite them to join in a physical activity, such as a walk or bike ride. • Offer to watch their children so they can go the gym, engage in some physical activity or have some “me” time. • Cook with them to learn more about healthy foods and healthy ways of cooking/eating. • Compliment their progress. • Encourage them in their lifestyle changes; express pride in their determination and self-discipline. “Again, the support of family and friends is very important to anyone making lifestyle changes,” said Santiago. “Be a cheerleader and a proponent of their actions; that goes a long way toward encouraging them to be successful in their efforts. In the end, supporting them may help you live a healthier lifestyle, too.”